Friday, May 8, 2009

MOTHER'S DAY SERMON'S.

Hello and Praise the Lord John!

I just wanted to drop you a line and remind you that we have several Mother's Day Power Point and image packs available for all members of PreachIt.org. You can use these to welcome the church's congregants and guests this Mother's Day. As well, these can be used to create a beautiful Power Point presentation for your Mother's Day message.
I also wanted to tell you about 6 incredible messages on the site that will minister to the mothers in your congregation this Mother's day.
The Faith Of Mothers
By: Rev. James Bigelow

Reference: Exodus 2:1
Description: The modern mother is living a pressure-filled life. Most of you mothers this morning would say that you live day by day by day with a feeling, "Life is just about to overtake me. I feel overwhelmed."

Take Him to His Mother
By: Rev. Philip Harrelson

Reference: 2 Kings 4:17
Description: Yet despite this entire calamity, I am convinced that a praying mother is able to overcome the losses and impact her children's lives.

Charge to Mothers
By: Rev. Jeff Brantley

Reference: Proverbs 31:10
Description: How does God praise this woman? By blessing her labors and her life. The fruit of her life will praise her.

Mother's Love and God's Love
By: Rev. Richard Tracey

Reference: 1 Corinthians 13:1
Description: There is a great comparison between the love of a mother and God's love for us.

Awesome Responsibility Of A Parent
By: Rev. Michael Blankenship

Reference: Matthew 18:1
Description: We indeed respect your position of influence in our lives!

Bring Jesus Home With You
By: Rev. Aubrey Jayroe

Reference: Mark 9:35
Description: Allow me to take a few minutes to help this certain breed of God's creation to understand the most important part of the blueprints of your home.


Remember, there is no "per download" charge for all members. If you are already a member, you already have full access to all of these. If you are not yet a member, the cost is very nominal and will be a huge blessing to your speaking ministry as you will also gain access to over 3,000 sermon outlines and manuscripts of various topics.

Well, that's it. Have a great weekend and a wonderful Mother's day.

Kindest Regards,

James Smith

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NEWS LETTER.

IN THIS ISSUE

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Sir, Reverend, Would You Have Them Hold the Mayonnaise - By Philip Harrelson
Get Some People Principles!
How To Communicate To Change Lives
Most Worry is Unnecessary
What others have to say...

Sir, Reverend, Would You Have Them Hold the Mayonnaise

By Philip Harrelson

There are times that I really get wrapped up with being important. I mean those times when I am so into the importance thing that the whole world finds it's orbit around me. I know that you may find that hard to believe, that "importance" could have such a dizzying effect on me but it does.

In fact some time ago, I found myself being very important. Our church was hosting a preaching workshop. Rick Wyser was doing his very good seminar "The Six Should-Be's of Preaching" and I was feeling particularly important. We had plotted and planned and had all sorts of free books, gadgets, computer programs and all sorts of other things to give out to the participants. Somewhere around fifty ministers came and we were having a tremendous time. Nothing motivates me like talking about becoming a better preacher, so I was definitely enjoying the element.

> Read the entire article here

Get Some People Principles!

You cannot consistently perform in a manner that is inconsistent with the way you see yourself. Think about it. It's a fact of life that people spend the most time doing what they believe will benefit them most.

When you realize that people treat you according to how they see themselves rather than how you really are, you are less likely to take personally their behavior toward you.

If you're willing to stand apart from the crowd, you're putting yourself in a vulnerable position. Count on some degree of criticism.

People withhold their best efforts when they see little or no relationships between what they do and how they are rewarded.

The key to relating to others is putting yourself in someone else's place instead of putting them in their place.

Confidence is contagious.

> Read the entire article here

How To Communicate To Change Lives

Why do preachers preach?

Since the goal of preaching is to change lives, preaching is the ultimate tool for church growth. But how can you be effective in communication through preaching? Listed below are eight questions to ask about your preaching.

1. Who will I be preaching to? Asking questions like, "What are their needs?", "What are their hurts?", and, "What are their interests?", will help us focus on where the people are. Why ask? Because although there are three things that always get one's attention:

  • Things that threaten us.
  • Things that are unusual.
  • Things that we value.

"A preacher can only consistently keep people's attention by focusing on what people value."

2. What does the bible say about their needs? Since the Bible is the Book of Life, is will have the answer to peoples needs! The preacher's task is to show the Bible to be relevant for today's needs.

3. What is the most practical way to say it? Application is the central task in preaching. So, preaching must be practical enough for people to know what to do. How to make preaching more practical?

  • Always aim for action.
  • Tell the people why.
  • Show them how.

Exhortation without explanation leads to frustration. Too often people respond to a message with the expression, "Yes, but how?" In other words, I agree with what you're saying, but "how do I do it?"

4. What is the most positive way to say it? Jesus never tried to convert anyone with anger. Although the Scriptures clearly warn of judgment, negative preaching only produces negative people.

> Read the entire article here

Most Worry is Unnecessary

Most of us worry unnecessarily about too many things.

It's almost as though we search for problems to give ourselves stress. The amazing news is that much of what we worry about doesn't matter at all! Take a look at these statistics about worry:

  • 40% of all things that we worry about never come to pass.
  • 30% of all our worries involve past decisions that cannot be changed.
  • 12% focus on criticism from others who spoke because they felt inferior.
  • 10% are related to our health, which gets worse when we worry.
  • 8% of our worries could be described as "legitimate" causes for concern.

> Read the entire article here

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Asst. Pastor Apostolic Church of Indio
Indio, CA

PRAISE THE LORD!

Praise The Lord John!

I wanted to take a moment and thank you personally for visiting www.PreachIt.org. I would also like to share with you one of my favorite messages on the site right now. It was contributed to PreachIt.org by Michael Phelps, one of our 200 contributors. You will find this to be one of over 3,200 wonderful message outlines now available on PreachIt.

You can belong to the fastest growing online resource for ministers anywhere. Go to www.PreachIt.org to subscribe. You will be greatly blessed. Consider some of the testimonies at the end of this letter.

Rev. James Smith

Matthew 17:14-21

14 And when they were come to the multitude, there came to him a certain man, kneeling down to him, and saying, 15 Lord, have mercy on my son: for he is lunatick, and sore vexed: for ofttimes he falleth into the fire, and oft into the water. 16 And I brought him to thy disciples, and they could not cure him. 17 Then Jesus answered and said, O faithless and perverse generation, how long shall I be with you? how long shall I suffer you? bring him hither to me. 18 And Jesus rebuked the devil; and he departed out of him: and the child was cured from that very hour. 19 Then came the disciples to Jesus apart, and said, Why could not we cast him out? 20 And Jesus said unto them, Because of your unbelief: for verily I say unto you, If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence to yonder place; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you. 21 Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.

"THE MAGIC IS NOT IN THE FAUCET!"

by Rev. Michael Phelps

INTRO:

Thomas Edward (T.E.) Lawrence was born on August 16, 1888 in Wales. Popularly known as Lawrence of Arabia, Lawrence became famous for his exploits as British Military liason to the Arab Revolt during the First World War.

The desert raids of British officer T.E. Lawrence and his Arab rebels tied down many Turkish troops who could have been fighting the main British armies in the Middle East. Lawrence of Arabia's struggle against the Turks during World War I was a classic of guerrilla warfare, and his personal account has become a classic of world literature. And, of course, many of you have seen the movie about the life of Lawrence of Arabia.

Lawrence wrote about his Arabian adventures in The Seven Pillars of Wisdom.

During the war, Lawrence formed close friendships with many of the Sheiks of Arabia. After the war, he brought some of these Sheiks back to England to show his appreciation for their support against the Turkish domination.

They had a wonderful visit, appeared before the Joint House of Commons and Parliament, had an audience with the Queen.

On the last night of their visit, Lawrence offered them anything they wanted to take back with them to their desert homes.

They led him up to the hotel room, into the bathroom, and pointed to the faucets in the bathtub and said that they wanted to take faucets with them that would provide them with running water in the deserts.

They didn't realize that the faucets were superficial. Behind them was plumbing, a hot water heater, an energy source that heated the water, a city main that supplied the water, and from the city main went a line to an outside source of water!

  • The magic is not in the faucet! It is what is behind the faucet that gives the water!
  • The faucet can be 24 carat gold, but if its not attached to a water supply, its useless!
  • The magic is not in the faucet, the power comes from what is behind the faucet! Things that are not visible to the human eye, but are there nonetheless!
  • If the pump, or the plumbing, or the reservoir ever to out of service, the faucet is useless! It's what's behind the faucet that gives it its power!

THE FIRST THING I WANT TO SAY THIS MORNING IS THIS; THE FAUCET IS NECESSARY TO GET THE WATER TO WHERE IT NEEDS TO BE.

  • I don't want to minimize the importance of a vessel! God needs faucets!
  • God has always worked through human vessels.
  • In fact, most of the time, God works through the most unlikely vessels!

God Can Use Anyone

  • Moses stuttered.
  • David's armour didn't fit.
  • John Mark was rejected by Paul.
  • Timothy had ulcers.
  • Amos' only training was in the school of fig-tree pruning.
  • Jacob was a liar.
  • David had an affair.
  • Solomon was too rich.
  • Abraham was too old.
  • David was too young.
  • Peter was afraid of death.
  • Lazarus was dead.
  • John was self-righteous.
  • Naomi was a widow.
  • Paul was a murderer.
  • So was Moses.
  • Jonah ran from God.
  • Miriam was a gossip.
  • Gideon and Thomas both doubted.
  • Jeremiah was a bullfrog;
  • Just kidding -- he was depressed and suicidal.
  • Elijah was burned out.
  • Martha was a worry-wart.
  • Mary may have been lazy.
  • Samson had long hair.
  • Noah got drunk, and that's not all.
  • Did I mention that Moses had a short fuse?
  • But God doesn't require a job interview.
  • He doesn't hire and fire like most bosses,
  • because He's more our Dad than our Boss.
  • He doesn't look at financial gain or loss.
  • He's not prejudiced or partial, not judging, grudging,
  • sassy, or brassy, not deaf to our cry, not blind to our need.

A Christian minister once said, "I was never of any use until I found out that God did not intend me to be a great man."

God needs us to be faucets! John 7:38

38 He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.

  • God can have all the plumbing in place, have the pump hooked up, ready to pour out blessings on His people, on the world, but He needs us to be vessels! He needs a faucet!
  • In many cases, the only thing that stops a move of God is the lack of a vessel.
  • When Elisha was performing the miracle for the prophet's widow, and the oil was flowing freely, the Bible says:

2 Kings 4:6
6 And it came to pass, when the vessels were full, that she said unto her son, Bring me yet a vessel. And he said unto her, There is not a vessel more. And the oil stayed.

The only thing that stopped the flow of oil was the lack of a vessel!

  • Now, don't ask me to explain why God decided to use imperfect vessels to accomplish His work.
  • It doesn't make sense to me that this God who can do all things would choose to restrict Himself to moving through imperfect, flawed, inconsistent humanity!
  • I don't know why the Creator chooses to move through His creation!
  • But God is always seeking for men and women through which to move!
  • At the day of Pentecost, God poured out His spirit upon all "FLESH"! Was filling vessels!

In Isaiah 43:18 He said, "I will work, and who will let it?"

God needs a vessel to through which to work!

  • Ezekiel said that God was seeking a MAN to stand in the gap and make up the hedge!
  • When the Lord struck Saul from his horse on the road to Damascus, He then told Saul, "Go see Ananias, he will tell you what to do!" GOD USED A HUMAN VESSEL!
  • In the Book of Revelation, John says that God wept because He could find no MAN to open the book of salvation, so God Himself took on the form of man to bring redemption!
  • Do you understand how important you are to the work of God! God will not move without a vessel!
  • God will not pour out His spirit without a faucet for it to flow through - you are that faucet!
  • God needs you and He needs me!

NOW, THE SECOND THING I WANT TO TALK ABOUT IS THIS: EVEN THOUGH GOD NEEDS US, WE CANNOT AFFORD TO TAKE THE GLORY FOR WHAT ONLY GOD CAN DO!

  • I am a faucet, but I must remember that there is no magic in the faucet!
  • Its what is behind the faucet that counts!
  • If the power supply ever gets shut off behind the wall, this faucet is useless!
  • I may still look good, may still say the same things, may still appear to be the same, but if my power supply is shut off, I am of no use to anyone!

Romans 7:18

18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.

  • I must understand that I am only the vessel, the conduit, the faucet!

2 Corinthians 4:7

7 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.

  • The power is God's, I am only the earthen vessel! I can't sing well enough, I can't preach well enough to duplicate what God can only do!

Romans 12:3

3 For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.

  • No matter how much God moves through us, remember it is God and not us!
  • No matter how many prophecies we give, no matter how much anointed preaching and teaching comes forth from us, we must never forget that it is what's behind the faucet that makes all the difference!
  • No matter how many good things happen through me, I am only the faucet, there is a power supply behind me, and if that is ever cut off I am useless!

IN OUR TEXT THIS MORNING, JESUS IS TEACHING HIS DISCIPLES THIS VERY IMPORTANT LESSON.

  • They had most likely watched Him cast out devils many times before.
  • They had heard Him teach about going into the Strongman's house and taking his armor.
  • They had probably watched as he sent the legion of devils into a herd of swine.

Numerous times the scripture speaks of Jesus casting out devils, and it is probable that the disciples were witnesses to these events.

  • So, now they come across a situation that they feel very confident that they can handle!
  • They have watched Jesus do this, they have observed His hand motions, listened to what He said, and how he said it!
  • They have the words, actions, motions, and everything else down pat, but there is one thing missing!
  • They have no power! There is nothing behind the faucet, and they fail miserably at the task at hand.

And Jesus takes this opportunity to tell them that there is no magic in the faucet!

  • In other words, if there is no prayer and fasting, there will be no power!
  • There is no magic in the faucet, its what is behind the faucet that makes the difference!

I can:

  • Say all the right words
  • Do all the right hand motions
  • Use the right tone of voice
  • But, if there is no prayer and fasting that has taken place behind the wall, there will be no power coming from the faucet! This kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting!

THE DANGER WE FACE IS WHEN WE TRY TO DUPLICATE THROUGH MERE HUMAN EFFORTS WHAT CAN ONLY BE PRODUCED BY GOD!

  • Preachers get into trouble when they learn how to preach!
  • Singers get into trouble when they learn how to sing!
  • Teachers get into trouble when they learn how to teach!

We must never reach the point where we learn how to do what only God can do!

  • I am never going to become so smart that I don't need God!

2312 Simpson's Most Valuable Discovery

In the year 1847, a doctor from Edinburgh, Sir James Simpson, discovered that chloroform could be used as an anaesthetic to render people insensible to the pain of surgery. From his early experiments, Dr. Simpson made it possible for people to go through the most dangerous operations without fear of pain and suffering. Some people even claim that his was one of the most significant discoveries of modern medicine.

Some years later, while lecturing at the University of Edinburgh, Dr. Simpson was asked by one of his students, "What do you consider to be the most valuable discovery of your lifetime?" To the surprise of his students, who had expected him to refer to chloroform, Dr. Simpson replied, "My most valuable discovery was when I discovered myself a sinner and that Jesus Christ was my Saviour."

The most valuable discovery that you and I can make this morning is this:

  • No matter how smart I am,
  • No matter how well I can preach,
  • No matter how well I can organize

  • I am still just a sinner saved by grace!
  • There is no power in me, I am just the faucet, the conduit, the vessel through which His power moves!
  • There is no magic in the faucet - I NEED JESUS!

Who would like to come and check their water source this morning?

Who would like to come and make sure that the pipes are not clogged?

The King James Version , ( Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.
Tan, Paul Lee, Encyclopedia of 7,700 Illustrations, ( Garland, Texas: Bible Communications, Inc.) 1996.
The King James Version , ( Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.
The King James Version , ( Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.
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The King James Version , ( Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.
The King James Version , ( Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.
Tan, Paul Lee, Encyclopedia of 7,700 Illustrations, ( Garland, Texas: Bible Communications, Inc.) 1996.

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SOMEONE IS BETTER AT IT THAN YOU ARE.

There is only one number one, only one best at anything. Thankfully, we live in an environment where even the tenth-best or the hundredth-best business may make some money. But why not try to learn something from the leaders?

Set aside your ego. Recognize that someone may be better than you are at what you do. Admit it - and then set your sights on becoming even better.

Who else makes what you do, sells what you do, or provides the same service you do - and is more successful at it? If you don’t try to understand what they are doing better, you don’t really want to win.

You see, another business fact is that sometimes number one slips and becomes number two or number three. Find a competitor that is more successful than you. Identify what they do better, combine that with your strengths, and then work harder or smarter. And maybe, just maybe, you’ll be number one someday.

THE PLAIN TRUTH.

The Plain Truth

There are some people who aspire to have power over others. And there’s not a person on this earth who hasn’t found himself on the short end of that power stick at one time or another.

Have you ever asked yourself what it is that gives someone power over you? The truth be known, it’s a matter of perception - both the other person’s and yours. By this I mean that most power is abstract, and therefore impossible to quantify.

So the question becomes, “If the power someone holds over you is abstract, how can you overcome it?” Answer: You simply refuse to grant permission. You see, the only power another person can have over you is the power you give him.

Which means it’s really your power. And only you can grant another person permission to take your power. By the same token, you can refuse to grant that permission.

Of course, you do not verbally grant permission. It’s much more subtle than that. As I said, power is an abstraction. The way it normally happens is that you get yourself into a position where you need the other person. If, for example, you ask him for a favor, that immediately gives him power over you.

Thus, the surest way to prevent others from having power over you is to be independent. And the corollary to this is that independence gives you power. The plain truth is that even a master intimidator like Donald Trump would have no power over you if you were totally independent. He may be a powerful person in his own right, but his power would not affect you unless you allowed it to. And you certainly are under no obligation to do that.

The next time you feel as though you’re in a position of weakness when dealing with someone, remember that his power is really your power - power that you have given him. And anytime you wish to revoke that power, you need only withdraw your permission for him to use it.

WHEN COMMON SENCE GETS IN YOUR WAY.

When you’re at a crossroads in your career - when your heart tells you to go in one direction, but your family and friends are trying to convince you to take a more practical path - what do you do?

In his very good book, The 4-Hour Workweek, Timothy Ferriss says that when it comes to deciding how you want to spend your life, the two most important things to remember are (1) The timing is never right and (2) Ask for forgiveness, not permission.

1. The timing is never right.

“For all the most important things, the timing always sucks,” says Ferriss. “Waiting for a good time to quit your job? The stars will never align and the traffic lights of life will never all be green at the same time. The universe doesn’t conspire against you, but it doesn’t go out of its way to line up all the pins either. Conditions are never perfect.”

2. Ask for forgiveness, not permission.

“If it isn’t going to devastate those around you, try it and then justify it,” says Ferriss. “People - whether parents, partners, or bosses - deny things on an emotional basis that they can learn to accept after the fact. If the potential damage is moderate or in any way reversible, don’t give people the chance to say no.”

So if you’re torn between pursuing a wild dream and following the common sense advice of people who care about you, what do you do?

I say… go for it! When I have followed my heart on career decisions and ignored the well-meaning advice of others, I have done very well.

Make your decision and then “sell” your loved ones on the value of being supportive of your new venture. As an ETR reader, you know how to do that: Make an honest, enthusiastic sales pitch highlighting the many ways that following your passion will benefit them… not you. Make promises. And keep them!

“Someday is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you,” says Timothy Ferriss. To that I would add this: The only thing worse than “someday” is “later.”